You Get What You Pay For

You Get What You Pay For

First and foremost, married sex is the best sex. It’s free. There is no guilt. There is no awkward follow-up conversation. There is no walk of shame. Your spouse is allowed to spend the night and leave clothes in one of the drawers. Did I mention you don’t have to pay for it? God honors […]

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He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

Can you remember the first time your body responded to the presence of a person you were attracted to? Do you remember the physical arousal? The emotional scintillation? The mental distraction? Do you remember smiling at the very thought of that person? Interestingly, these seemingly benign reactions could be signals or warning signs to keep […]

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50 Shades of Love

50 Shades of Love

February is the month for love! There are many proposals, all over the US being planned for this month, many coming on Valentines Day. I even proposed to my wife in February, although I wanted to make sure it was a surprise so I proposed a week before Valentines! We are seeing all the card […]

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Sexual Purity is a Two -Way Street

Sexual Purity is a Two -Way Street

An important question I’ve been asked by several women via Facebook, Twitter, and various conferences and panel discussions is, “Are there any men willing to accept a woman’s preference to pursue purity and remain celibate?” This question is asked in response to a perceived shortage of Christian men as suitable mates. It’s a valid question […]

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No More Drama

No More Drama

Drama is great on stage and onscreen. Not so in relationships. Drama in relationships is draining, overwhelming, and debilitating. When there is drama in relationships, it destroys your focus, impacts your work productivity, pulls the puppet strings on your emotions, and freezes you from making any progress of any sort. When there is drama in […]

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God’s Good Girls

God’s Good Girls

I am writing this to the many women who are trying to do things right according to God’s Word. I know I am NOT a woman and I definitely enjoy my masculinity. However, I do recognize your current frustration in today’s environment of male-female relationships. Just so we are clear as to what my definition […]

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Sexually Test Drive Your Mate??

Sexually Test Drive Your Mate??

Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (I Corinthians 6:18) One of the most popular questions I receive when I state my position on pre-marital sex is, “What happens if my mate and I aren’t sexually compatible?” The […]

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Gospel Today presents “This Week” – Christians & Valentine’s Day; Sexuality in Marriage

Gospel Today presents “This Week” – Christians & Valentine’s Day; Sexuality in Marriage

Gospel Today presents “This Week” explores the topics, people and issues impacting our world from the perspective of faith to answer the question, “How can we live out the Gospel today?” On this week’s show the panel answers the question, “Should Christians celebrate Valentine’s Day?” Learn a little about the history of Valentine’s Day and […]

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TEENS, DATING & GOOD CHOICES

By Pastor Brenda Timberlake Q. When should I allow my child to start dating? A. It depends upon the maturity of your child. However, don\’t allow your child to date unless there is some form of accountability at all times during the date. When our children were dating age, my husband and I discussed our […]

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College Dating: A Player\’s Playground?

Socially correct terms like, “friends with benefits,” “booty call” or “one night stand” describe sexual liaisons that have become commonplace on many college campuses. These temporary hook ups involve connecting with someone either at a campus party or event, and most often, but not always, include sex. Hook-ups are generally void of deep emotional connections […]

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