You Get What You Pay For

You Get What You Pay For

First and foremost, married sex is the best sex. It’s free. There is no guilt. There is no awkward follow-up conversation. There is no walk of shame. Your spouse is allowed to spend the night and leave clothes in one of the drawers. Did I mention you don’t have to pay for it? God honors […]

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He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

Can you remember the first time your body responded to the presence of a person you were attracted to? Do you remember the physical arousal? The emotional scintillation? The mental distraction? Do you remember smiling at the very thought of that person? Interestingly, these seemingly benign reactions could be signals or warning signs to keep […]

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50 Shades of Love

50 Shades of Love

February is the month for love! There are many proposals, all over the US being planned for this month, many coming on Valentines Day. I even proposed to my wife in February, although I wanted to make sure it was a surprise so I proposed a week before Valentines! We are seeing all the card […]

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Sexual Purity is a Two -Way Street

Sexual Purity is a Two -Way Street

An important question I’ve been asked by several women via Facebook, Twitter, and various conferences and panel discussions is, “Are there any men willing to accept a woman’s preference to pursue purity and remain celibate?” This question is asked in response to a perceived shortage of Christian men as suitable mates. It’s a valid question […]

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What are You Wearing on Your Wedding Day?

What are You Wearing on Your Wedding Day?

I had met my daughter’s husband only once before he asked, “I would like permission to date–no court–your daughter.” Court? I had never heard a person his age ask such a thing. I was waiting for the following line; this had to be good with that type of lead in. He continued and stated that […]

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No More Drama

No More Drama

Drama is great on stage and onscreen. Not so in relationships. Drama in relationships is draining, overwhelming, and debilitating. When there is drama in relationships, it destroys your focus, impacts your work productivity, pulls the puppet strings on your emotions, and freezes you from making any progress of any sort. When there is drama in […]

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God’s Good Girls

God’s Good Girls

I am writing this to the many women who are trying to do things right according to God’s Word. I know I am NOT a woman and I definitely enjoy my masculinity. However, I do recognize your current frustration in today’s environment of male-female relationships. Just so we are clear as to what my definition […]

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Sexually Test Drive Your Mate??

Sexually Test Drive Your Mate??

Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (I Corinthians 6:18) One of the most popular questions I receive when I state my position on pre-marital sex is, “What happens if my mate and I aren’t sexually compatible?” The […]

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